Showing posts with label In Memory. Show all posts
Showing posts with label In Memory. Show all posts

Monday, October 24, 2011

Memories of Uncle Walter

This is my Uncle Walter.  He wore this sweater every year for Christmas since my mom made it for him, some time in the 1960's.  Apparently she made a matching one for my aunt, who didn't think it necessary to continue the tradition :)  Yes, it really is that bright! 


My uncle passed away yesterday after a long battle with cancer.  It is amazing to me that at this time last year, he was making arrangements in case he didn't make it until last Christmas.  He refused chemotherapy, and lived much longer than the doctors had given him even if he had taken the drugs.  This is a testimony to his faith in God, and his will to live.  He knew he didn't have long, and he wanted to have the best quality of life he could have, rather than spending it feeling sick from the chemo drugs.


Uncle Walter had strong opinions (probably a family trait :)) and always let you know what he thought.  He also had a great sense of humor.  I remember as a child being surprised by a "quack-quack" while shopping in a store.  Yep, around the corner came Uncle Walter.  Some of his favorite jokes - and gags - involved ducks, and most of the others involved noses!


When I was young, my grandmother would sometimes mix up people's names, which I've unfortunately found myself doing at times ( I have sadly been known to call the kids by the dog's name, and vice-versa).  Her favorite "oops" name for me was Walter.  She explained that I did things that reminded her of my uncle as a child.  I only hope that I would still remind her of him as an adult.

Tuesday, October 18, 2011

Pulling and Leaning

I received some bad news this morning.  A dear friend has passed away.  She was one of my best friends in college, and has really been the one to keep the rest of us in touch over the years.  The doctors had given her 2-3 days to live two weeks ago, and she finally succumbed this morning.  So, even though I've been expecting the news, each day also brought hope that she would somehow pull through.  She leaves behind her husband and two teenaged children.

I cried a lot when I first heard she was in the hospital, and the tears have been threatening to escape their bonds again today.  But I don't think she would have wanted the tears.

It's hard to understand why God would allow someone to die so young.  But then, is there ever a good time for someone to die?

It would be easy to pull away from God right now.  All of my prayers unanswered, or worse yet, answered with a resounding "no."  But I don't think she would have wanted that, either.

When she was battling cancer a while ago, all she asked for was prayers.  This illness left her unable to ask for anything at all, so I prayed some more.

People are born, and people die, and both occasions are much more emotional for those around them.  A baby only knows it has gone into a different existence, not understanding yet what that will be.  Death must be a similar experience, a kind of birth in a way.

So I will lean on God.  Pull close instead of pulling away.  For I know that Dianne is with Him now.  And some day we will be together again.

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